"We miss you, parents"

Sebelum tidur ni, 
jom tanya diri sendiri;
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When was the last time I spent a QUALITY TIME with my children? 
When was the last time we were laughing and did silly things together? 
When was the last time we had a heart to heart talk and got emotionally connected to one another? 
When was the last time I listened to my children's disappointment and wiped their tears? 
When was the last time we cuddled each other while watching movies or while sleeping?
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Bila? 
Tadi? 
Semalam? 
Dua minggu lepas? 
Atau, tak ingat bila?
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If we can recall when was it, 
like baru je tadi we had some beautiful moments together, 
say Alhamdulillah.
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Bcoz Allah has given us another opportunity to BE THERE with our children,
and created another good memory with them.
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But if we cannot even recall when was the last time we spent good time with them, 
hmm.
Mungkin kita agak terleka dengan tugas lain, 
dan dengan tidak sengaja terrrr-abaikan anak-anak. 😭
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So cepat-cepat maafkan diri sendiri, 
beri satu lagi peluang pada diri, 
and promise to be better this time.
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Let's get back to our children. 
Let's make them laugh again. 
Let's have some cuddling time again. 
Agar terubat rindu anak-anak terhadap kita,
yang mungkin dah lama dipendam, 
namun. tak terluah oleh mereka selama ini.
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Sebab anak-anak--
sentiasa nantikan detik-detik indah itu daripada kita.
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So jom malam ni, 
kita sama-sama pasang niat. 
Untuk jadi IBU BAPA mereka "semula". Ibu bapa yang layak memenangi carta hati anak-anak. 
Ibu bapa yang anak-anak akan rindu dan sayang sepenuh jiwa.
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Kita pun sebenarnya rindu untuk jadi ibu bapa itu, kan? 😊
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So let's! 
Before it's too late. 
Before the children grow up fast, 
become independent, 
and maybe by that time, 
they don't t need anything from us anymore.
. 
WE--
will need them, instead.
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Semoga kita sentiasa hargai anak-anak selayaknya, 
sepertimana kita mahu mereka hargai kita satu masa nanti.
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Selamat malam, semua!




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